Summary:

In “A Marriage Agreement” by Alix Kates Shulman, tells the readers a set of domestic rules which can help make a relationship be more productive and enjoyable. Shulman’s marriage was your typical normal uncomplicated domestic life; however, only for a short period of time. Shulman took the sex role that society assigns; as a result, she took the burdens of housekeeping and child bearing. The constant physical work of housekeeping and the responsibilities that come with raising children Shulman’s life seemed as though it was over. Shulman decided that this way of living was not how she wanted it to be, so she decided to make changes to their lifestyle. Eventually, they both agreed to share all responsibility for housekeeping and raising their children together. It was hard at the beginning, but eventually made their marriage work peacefully with no resentment towards each other.

Critical Response:

My marriage is a traditional family, all the domestic chores fall on to me. I Am responsible for taking care of my children, feeding them, changing them, and everything that come with it. My husband works five hours away from home, so he comes to visit only on weekends. When he comes he tries to spend most of the time with the children yet is unable to understand what our children likes and dislikes. However, when my husband gets time off  from work, he spends the majority of the time with his friends. We have tried to change our living lifestyle but haven’t figure out how to make it work. My husband, who is very closed minded and hates new changes. Eventually, I always end up doing everything just as my role in society is dictated.

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